Love Addiction & Codependency
Come home to yourself. Our 12-week programme gently addresses the relational and attachment patterns that keep you longing, losing yourself and staying when you know it is time to go.
Trauma-Informed
Attachment-aware clinical care
Group Healing
Relational repair in community
12-Step Integration
SLAA / CoDA-aligned support
12 Weeks
Comprehensive programme
The Treatment Process
A gentle, structured path back to yourself, supported by a small, loving community.
Assessment & Grounding
Understanding your relational patterns, attachment history and the ways codependency shows up in your life.
Stabilisation
Stepping out of intense relational cycles into a safe, contained space where you can begin to feel yourself again.
Therapeutic Treatment
Trauma-informed therapy, attachment work, CBT, DBT and group sessions to rebuild self-worth and healthy boundaries.
Re-integration & Aftercare
Practising new ways of relating, with continued support through sober living or recovery coaching.
What We Treat
Love addiction and codependency rarely arrive alone — they often live alongside trauma, anxiety and other addictive patterns. We work with the whole picture.
- Love addiction & relationship obsession
- Codependency patterns
- Anxious and disorganised attachment
- Recovery from toxic or abusive relationships
- Cross-addiction with substances or behaviours
- Co-occurring trauma, anxiety or depression
Why Choose Hillhouse?
- Luxury setting in Cape Town's scenic surroundings
- Maximum 24 clients for personalised attention
- Trauma- and attachment-informed clinical care
- 12-step integration (SLAA, CoDA aligned)
- Holistic therapies including yoga, Nia dance and mindfulness
- Netherlands outpatient aftercare programme
- Treatment approved by health insurance
Frequently Asked Questions
Come Home to Yourself
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